I agree with Don'tCallMeShirley, and all really...
We had a friend who died in the 60's because he refused a transplant. When the doctrine changed, it was "He was loyal to Jehovah, he'll be resurrected."
Now that we have 'faded,' we have tried to help several people, and most of the time, it gives them the shakes, they have no reply, are afraid of the answer, and they say "you should talk to an elder."
In our lifetime, we have seen elders, and the GB, support very weird actions in the congregation. You never know , even if you think you know, whow any individual, let alone a group of men (get them cornered...) will react.
I think, as many here have said, it is best to display that you are happy, content, have no problems... be as mysterious as you can...
Please listen to everyone... I thought I was an excellent "arguer of fact." When I spoke to a close one about 607, overlapping generations, end not 'imminent, Russel was crazy he couldn't be chosen by God, The Awake made a promise in God's name that the end would come before the end of the 20th century, and it didn't.....
They didn't care... they admitted they don't believe everything the Society ("those old men") teach, but....
1. They'll get corrected, Jehovah always does that.
2. Jehovah's always had an organization.
3. Who else is preaching the good news, using God's name?
4. (the best) "At least people will be ready"
Want to try the old "would you drink a glass of water with a drop of poison in it?" Does not even cause a blink of an eye.... That only appllies if you are talking to someone else about their religion. No illustrations apply back to the Society.
Do..... not.... do.... it.....
PS, when you need to make a "donation" (if you go any more at all, tell your wife you'll take care of it, and drop something else in)
as I like to say: cha ching, cha ching! you aren't getting any more of my bling!